Key to the Castle

Do you remember getting the keys to your first apartment or your first house? It was so exciting and the possibilities seemed endless! Then, after awhile, you realized these places don’t take care of themselves. You have to put time and energy into maintenance. Sometimes repairs need to be made and things need to be patched up. And isn’t that just like our marriages? We get married to this perfect guy who is going to love us and protect us and take care of us—he’s a prince and you’re a princess and you’re going to live happily ever after! And then, after awhile, you realized that marriages don’t take care of themselves. You have to put time and energy into maintenance. Sometimes repairs need to be made and things need to be patched up.

Oftentimes one of the biggest obstacles we face in our marriages is that as we become overwhelmed by our responsibilities and the claims on our time and energy, we get stuck on auto-pilot. We forget who we are, what we’re working towards. We have rules for our children (do your chores, brush your teeth, don’t talk back) but not rules of trust and respect in our marriage. And life just chips away at us. I’m going to give you the tools you need to get the keys to YOUR castle. To write the story you want to live, to create the connection you want with your prince (who is now a King), to establish the rules of your Kingdom and to thrive in abundance.

You are the Queen and this is YOUR fairy tale. Only, it’s real and it’s deep and it’s lasting. Get your Keys to the Castle and start living it today.